wadesgirl
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It's hard on all of you! Her world was turned upside down but she's using it as an excuse to not doing anything with her life. I think you and DH need to sit down together first and come up with a budge for everything. Then you need to sit down with your sister and let her know what's going on. Let her know that certain things are going to be budgeted. If that means the tv only gets turned on for 30 minutes a night to save electricity then that's that. If it means that she needs to cook her own meals to fit her satisfaction than she should do so herself, not put the stress on you. But I do think you need to have a family meeting but sit down with DH first to discuss these issues, because after she's gone, it's back to the two of you to sort things out.