janetupnorth
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MeesMom3 said:UPDATE: Got a call from the hostess. First, she APOLOGIZED. Yeah! Second, she said that the last show she hosted was a couple of years ago and didn't have good attendance and the consultant seemed irritated. She said that she worried about that this time and so she took the advice of a sister in law who told her not to mention the PC show. She said it backfired and had a few of her guests ask her why she didn't include the PC show on the invite. That doesn't explain why she kept it from me, but hey she knows she messed up, so there's no use in adding salt to the wound...I left it alone. So now, I don't think her and the sis in law are getting along to well, but that's none of my business so I changed the subject when she began talking about that. She is very embarrassed and would like to host a show in the future with me if I would be willing. So I told her I will help her improve her attendance next time. She also has collected 4 more outside orders and her show should close around $400...we are closing tonight. So all is well that ends well. I was polite, honest, and stood firm and it worked out this time. This could have easily gone the other way, but thankfully it didn't. Thanks for all of your thoughts, prayers, and great advice on this situation guys. I did a lot of praying about this myself. So I'll leave you guys with this:
Colossians 3:23: And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily as to the Lord and not unto men.
Make it a great day!
Awesome, it worked out well, she knows she messed up, is willing to correct it and hopefully you've started to build an honest relationship. Help her as much as you can next time and maybe in the learning what works and doesn't, she'll learn to be a great customer, host, and who knows, maybe someday a consultant after she sees how you handled the situation.
Yeah for good results!