Do You Get Your Stripper Star at 800 or Higher??

[pcchris]

Sorry again.....didn't mean to bring you all down.

you may now resume our normal goofiness.....

I'm goin' ta bed.

 

[Carissidy]

thanks soooooooooooooooooooooo much. I knew this was the right place to come. and way cheaper than a shrink!!

LOL.... I just want you to know thats all. Anytine you need to vent honey you just march your little butt over here to your computer and let it out! And thats an order missy! Now go to your room! LOL just kidding about the room part... got a little carried away with the authority part

 

[heather9892]

and on top of all that, we are looking at filing bankruptcy.
when it rains, it pours

ah man
if i had any money i'd lend it to you
i know how money causes way too much stress in a marriage
its too bad we cant live without it and be happy just the same

{{{{{{{{{more hugs}}}}}}}}} but bigger this time:love:

 

[Carissidy]

Are you catching up Heather?

 

[heather9892]

REALLY??? If it is for the better ok, but really?
I have heard some of your stories and I think maybe it is for the better but only you know for sure...

really
tonite he was pissed at me b/c i sold matthew's crib like 4 mths ago and kept the money
b/c he bought it:grumpy:

 

[Carissidy]

I am just going to grab some ice cream and be right back.... have you heard from Kim lately?

 

[Carissidy]

really
tonite he was pissed at me b/c i sold matthew's crib like 4 mths ago and kept the money
b/c he bought it:grumpy:

are you married?

 

[heather9892]

thanks soooooooooooooooooooooo much. I knew this was the right place to come. and way cheaper than a shrink!!

get out your food chopper
thats my pampered prozac

 

[heather9892]

Sorry again.....didn't mean to bring you all down.

you may now resume our normal goofiness.....

I'm goin' ta bed.

no worries chris
have a good sleep
tomorrow is another day

 

[heather9892]

Are you catching up Heather?

just reading slow
havent caught up from 2 days ago yet lol

 

[heather9892]

I am just going to grab some ice cream and be right back.... have you heard from Kim lately?

havent been here much today but havent seen her or ellen for a few days
hope all is ok with them

 

[Carissidy]

LOL take your time... I was looking to chat, I will be here either way

 

[heather9892]

are you married?

common law for almost 17yrs now

 

[Carissidy]

havent been here much today but havent seen her or ellen for a few days
hope all is ok with them

I know, isn't that kinda strange? Or is it just strange that I am on here as much as I am??? LOL

 

[heather9892]

LOL take your time... I was looking to chat, I will be here either way

im here
ive been coming in in the morning to read when noone is here lol

 

[Carissidy]

common law for almost 17yrs now

wow 17 years ouch and you are unhappy! I hope it hasn't always been this way for you

 

[heather9892]

I know, isn't that kinda strange? Or is it just strange that I am on here as much as I am??? LOL

maybe they are just busy and have a life better than ours lol:cry:

 

[Carissidy]

im here
ive been coming in in the morning to read when noone is here lol

I have found that if I catch up and no one is here it is best but if people are here I catch up while they talk to eachother and if I am addressed I answer and go back to reading.... that way I don't keep falling further and further behind

 

[heather9892]

wow 17 years ouch and you are unhappy! I hope it hasn't always been this way for you

we have had our ups and downs but it has never been this bad before
it all started 6 mths after matthew was born and he started bugging me to go back to work
we get a year mat leave here

 

[Carissidy]

maybe they are just busy and have a life better than ours lol:cry:

LOL you are probably right :cry: But the sad thing is, I do have a life but I can't wait to come back to our happy little clique we have going here LOL

 

[heather9892]

wow 17 years ouch and you are unhappy! I hope it hasn't always been this way for you

its seems everything revolves around money with him
for some reason he thinks if i get a "real" job all our troubles will go away

what an idiot:grumpy:

 

[Carissidy]

we have had our ups and downs but it has never been this bad before
it all started 6 mths after matthew was born and he started bugging me to go back to work
we get a year mat leave here

wow, thats great! we get 6 weeks most places if not less
what did you do for work?

 

[heather9892]

LOL you are probably right :cry: But the sad thing is, I do have a life but I can't wait to come back to our happy little clique we have going here LOL

yes it is nice isnt it?

 

[heather9892]

wow, thats great! we get 6 weeks most places if not less
what did you do for work?

i worked in a daycare
but he doesnt want me to bring any kids in the home b/c he works 1 shift of afternoons every 5 wks and that would intrude on him:grumpy:

 

[Carissidy]

its seems everything revolves around money with him
for some reason he thinks if i get a "real" job all our troubles will go away

what an idiot:grumpy:

why, oh why can't men understand that even if we were rolling in the dough, we wouldn't necessarily be happy? I don't feel that way at all, I know I don't have a lot of money and am by no means well off but I am happy with the family I have and the time I have with them and my friends....
Maybe I am just silly, I don't know

 

[heather9892]

i worked in a daycare
but he doesnt want me to bring any kids in the home b/c he works 1 shift of afternoons every 5 wks and that would intrude on him:grumpy:

he wants me to do what HE wants me to do not what I want to do
and we are both pigheaded and stubborn
and for so long did what we wanted to do and enjoyed what time we spent together
but now matthew is here so someone has to be responsible and its not him:grumpy:

 

[Carissidy]

i worked in a daycare
but he doesnt want me to bring any kids in the home b/c he works 1 shift of afternoons every 5 wks and that would intrude on him:grumpy:

So..... what the heck does he want from you exactly???

 

[heather9892]

why, oh why can't men understand that even if we were rolling in the dough, we wouldn't necessarily be happy? I don't feel that way at all, I know I don't have a lot of money and am by no means well off but I am happy with the family I have and the time I have with them and my friends....
Maybe I am just silly, I don't know

same here
we live comfortably
and get this
this weekend is out thanksgiving well we are not having turkey etc b/c he siad im responible for the groceries:grumpy:

 

[heather9892]

So..... what the heck does he want from you exactly???

he wants matthew in daycare and for me to make $18/hr

 

[heather9892]

So..... what the heck does he want from you exactly???

oh and to take care of matthew
and make sure the house is spotless etc etc:grumpy:

 

[heather9892]

matthew was born end of june and for the first two summers he played golf sat & sun every weekend while i was at home

 

[Carissidy]

he wants me to do what HE wants me to do not what I want to do
and we are both pigheaded and stubborn
and for so long did what we wanted to do and enjoyed what time we spent together
but now matthew is here so someone has to be responsible and its not him:grumpy:

thats too bad, I think that in that sense my DH has it hard because I don't let him get away with that, I tell him all the time that he has no choice... they are his kids just as much as mine and I will not sit back and play wifey like he wants me too. It is a 50-50 thing or nothing! We definitely have our ups and downs but I have to put my foot down often and I won't put up with it! I dealt with a terrible abusive relationship for 8 years and I will not do it again and I think he suffers a bit from that....

 

[Carissidy]

same here
we live comfortably
and get this
this weekend is out thanksgiving well we are not having turkey etc b/c he siad im responible for the groceries:grumpy:

ok, bread and water for him because all you could afford is enough to buy for you and Matthew....

 

[heather9892]

thats too bad, I think that in that sense my DH has it hard because I don't let him get away with that, I tell him all the time that he has no choice... they are his kids just as much as mine and I will not sit back and play wifey like he wants me too. It is a 50-50 thing or nothing! We definitely have our ups and downs but I have to put my foot down often and I won't put up with it! I dealt with a terrible abusive relationship for 8 years and I will not do it again and I think he suffers a bit from that....

if i were to tell him that i think he is abusive he would call me crazy!!!!!

he is definately a money bully as dr phil would say

 

[Carissidy]

he wants matthew in daycare and for me to make $18/hr

you would practically be paying for daycare!! thats crazy! and 18/hour.... is there somewhere you can make that?

 

[Christ Follower]

Just a quick update.......

My computer is currently crashed!:cry:

I'm at my moms house for just a minute and wanted to let you all know that I am alive. (and still eating ice cream...lots of it.)

I've basically had one bad thing after another happen to me since Wed. but God is teaching my to fully trust and rely on him.

I hope to have my computer back in a week or so. My open house from the 30th is still not submitted b/c ALL the information is STUCK on the computer so I can't even have my Director submit the show in my name unless I call all the people who ordered and find out what they had (since I hadn't printed up receipts yet) and get all the credit card info. etc.

That wouldn't be that bad except for my alcoholic MIL from Texas ordered over $200 worth of stuff and I highly doubt she will remember all the products again. :cry: :cry: :cry:

Thank you all for thinking of me.

See Mary, now you don't have to update everyone about the PM afterall!:thumbup:

Love and Miss you all!!!!! I wish I could stay and chat and vent all night!

 

[heather9892]

ok, bread and water for him because all you could afford is enough to buy for you and Matthew....

im taking matthew to my friends place and he can sit here alone and eat

 

[heather9892]

you would practically be paying for daycare!! thats crazy! and 18/hour.... is there somewhere you can make that?

that is actually our average wage here in ontario

 

[Christ Follower]

BTW, I had a show tonight for that lady w/ the hummer, bmw, suv, and porche.

No bookings (but 1 maybe booking and 1 maybe catalog show booking)

Almost $600 in sales with more coming in.

I have a show tomorrow after church also. Wish me luck!

 

[Carissidy]

matthew was born end of june and for the first two summers he played golf sat & sun every weekend while i was at home

Nope, sorry I think thats unacceptable.... DH loves golf and belongs to a club to go free.... doesn't matter he to has responsibilities and he will have time for that later.... just my opinion....SORRY

 

[heather9892]

HI ELLEN

 

[Carissidy]

im taking matthew to my friends place and he can sit here alone and eat

GOOD FOR YOU!!!

 

[Christ Follower]

Too bad I have no way of submitting the shows I'm doing...


(whimper whimper sniffle sniffle cry...)

 

[Christ Follower]

HI ELLEN

HI HEATHER AND ANGELA!!!!

 

[Carissidy]

BTW, I had a show tonight for that lady w/ the hummer, bmw, suv, and porche.

No bookings (but 1 maybe booking and 1 maybe catalog show booking)

Almost $600 in sales with more coming in.

I have a show tomorrow after church also. Wish me luck!

Good Luck Ellen! We miss you and you are definitely on our minds! and IMHO a week is just waaaayyyy tooo long for you to come back!

 

[heather9892]

Too bad I have no way of submitting the shows I'm doing...


(whimper whimper sniffle sniffle cry...)

cant you call them in?
or fax them in?

 

[heather9892]

and good luck
kick some butt lol

 

[heather9892]

HI HEATHER AND ANGELA!!!!

do you love our pink dresses? lol

 

[chefheidi2003]

Good Night everyone...

 

[Carissidy]

I am eating my ice cream right now