ChefLisa
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My daughter has a friend who began renting a house in our neighborhood. The family does not have a pool key yet.
Last night I was away at a Tastefully Simple party. My hubby decided to take the kids to the pool. My daughter was about to call her friend to invite her to go with them. However, before she was able to call her, the friend called my daughter first. She asked if we could help get them into the pool. My daughter told her that is not a problem since the family was going up. The friend said something to the effect of "good, we want to get away from the house." My daughter assumed the friend's family would meet them at the pool.
By the time my family got there, there was my daughter's friend with a bunch of other kids, several who are also my daughter's friends. Her parents were not with her. I personally would have told her they were not going in without one of her parents, but my husband was being nice and kept and eye on them. My daughter's feelings were rightfully hurt because her 'friend' was having a party, did not invite her, but used her to get into the pool. Quite deceptive!!!
I was ready to call the girl's mom this morning because I suspect she told her mom quite a lie to make this work for her. However, instead I had my daughter call her friend. Her friend had the nerve to tell my daughter she did not mean to use her, she just did not think my daughter would enjoy hanging with the crowd that evening.
Can you believe the nerve? UGH - I really am still mad, but I am trying very hard to stay out of it. However, since my daughter called her on it, I suspect she will not be asking us to get her into the pool again. If she does, she will get an ear full from me.
Last night I was away at a Tastefully Simple party. My hubby decided to take the kids to the pool. My daughter was about to call her friend to invite her to go with them. However, before she was able to call her, the friend called my daughter first. She asked if we could help get them into the pool. My daughter told her that is not a problem since the family was going up. The friend said something to the effect of "good, we want to get away from the house." My daughter assumed the friend's family would meet them at the pool.
By the time my family got there, there was my daughter's friend with a bunch of other kids, several who are also my daughter's friends. Her parents were not with her. I personally would have told her they were not going in without one of her parents, but my husband was being nice and kept and eye on them. My daughter's feelings were rightfully hurt because her 'friend' was having a party, did not invite her, but used her to get into the pool. Quite deceptive!!!
I was ready to call the girl's mom this morning because I suspect she told her mom quite a lie to make this work for her. However, instead I had my daughter call her friend. Her friend had the nerve to tell my daughter she did not mean to use her, she just did not think my daughter would enjoy hanging with the crowd that evening.
Can you believe the nerve? UGH - I really am still mad, but I am trying very hard to stay out of it. However, since my daughter called her on it, I suspect she will not be asking us to get her into the pool again. If she does, she will get an ear full from me.