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What Happened to My Mom and How is She Doing Now?

In summary, my mother was having a hernia surgery and her stomach twisted and caused her stomach to push up against her lungs. Her stomach was distended to about 4 times its normal size and the surgery was to save her esophagus and a portion of her stomach. The surgery was successful and my mother is in the ICU recovering.
ChefBeckyD
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I won't be able to be online much for the next few days, so wanted to explain what has been happening, and ask for your prayers -
Late Sat. Night (early Sun Morn. actually) I got a call from SIL - my mom was throwing up large amounts of blood and was calling 911 for an ambulance. My mom, at the time, was taking care of my 2 young nephews, while my DB & SIL were taking oldest son to Kentucky to stay w/ other GP's for 2 Weeks. Some friends of theirs came and picked up the boys, and I met Mom @ Holland Hospital, to find her in ENORMOUS pain, and extremely sick. They admitted her and started a battery of tests, which went on for the entire day. She could only sit all curled up and hunched over - any time she tried to sit up or lay down, she would get violently ill again. She was on every single nausea med. they had, and also morphine for the pain, but nothing was even touching it! Finally a specialist was able to pinpoint that a hiatal hernia ( that no one knew she had) had caused her stomach to twist into a figure 8, and had pushed her stomach up under her lungs. Her stomach was distended to about 4 times its normal size! The Dr. sent her for a Cat-Scan, and called in a Surgeon......who then came in to tell me & my Aunt (who had come from Lansing to be with me) that this was extremely serious.......and that surgery needed to happen NOW - from the C-scan, it looked like a large portion of her stomach had died from lack of blood flow, and she (the surgeon) was just hoping they would be able to save the esophogus and a small portion of her stomach. Mom was at extremely high risk for Aspiration into her lungs when they would have to intubate her for surgery, and also other problems with her lungs from the infected stomach being pressed up against them......plus several other high rish factors. Best case scenario that she gave us was being able to save the esophogus, and a portion of the stomach.....worst case was ....well, we didn't even want to go there! My DB & SIL had raced back from Kentucky, and made it back just before she went into surgery. We took some time to pray w/ Mom,and then told her we loved her and said good-bye. 4 hrs later (10:30pm!) the surgeon came in to tell us about the miracle! They were able to save the whole stomach! She had about 2 liters of fluid in her stomach though, and her esophagus was paper thin, and a bunch of other stuff (tired right now, and so many details!) She is in ICU now on a ventilator.....has a feeding tube in her small intestine, and drain tube in her stomach and one also in her esophogus. She will be in the hospital for at least 2 weeks. We were able to see her last night, and then they told us we could go home, because they were going to keep her heavily sedated all night. I had gotten about 4 miles from the hospital when I got a call from the nurse saying that my mom had woken up and was very agitated and seemed a bit frightened. I immediately turned around, and went back - and spent the night w/ mom. Her hands are in restraints so she doesn't pull out the ventilator tube, and she doesn't like that....and she still has some pain, but NOTHING like it was before the surgery. She is able to write some questions and she had been talking alot that way (so hard for a big talker not to be able to talk with her mouth OR her hands!)
Please pray for her recovery.....she is still at high risk for Pneumonia......and very weak. Once she is out of the hospital, she will have alot of physical therapy, and her total recovery we were told could take months!

WE are extremely thankful to God for the miracle of her surgery, and how well it went - and for the fact that 4 Surgeons came in on a Sunday night (Including the one who is the "Expert" in W. Mi. in this type of surgery) to do emergency surgery! I'm so thankful that she is doing well and that today I have my Mom!

Haven't really slept in about 36 hours now, and I have a DR's appt I have to keep - will probably try to sleep a few hours after that and then go back up to the hospital. I have a show tomorrow night that I need to do, but was able to reschedule my show for the 14th (a friend is hosting and she was more than willing to work with me!) Pray also that I will be able to keep up my strength, sleep when I can, and keep moving when I have to!

I will update later, but I will be very limited in my time on CS for the next week or so! Love you guys - and thanks for your prayers and support!
 
Oh Becky! What a scary experience! Hugs and prayers coming your way! Hang in there...we're here for you!
 
Oh, good grief! And all this on top of your crazy schedule lately.

I'm glad the surgery went well, but will be praying for you and your family.

{{{hugs}}}
 
Big hugs Becky. How absolutely scary. I'm glad the surgery went well and that your mom is still with you. You and your family will be in my prayers as she recovers.

Get some rest!
 
You're family will be in my prayers!
 
Praying for your mom and family. What a scary time for all!
 
Wow, Becky, that's incredible. I'm so glad the outlook is better. I hope her recovery goes smoothly. Be sure to take care of yourself, too!:)
 
You'll all be in my prayers.
 
I completely understand how you are feeling, I am praying for you and your family! Stay strong :)
 
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Many prayers for your Mom and the rest of the family ~

Ginny
 
  • #11
Prays from Cincinnati coming your way, too! Let us know if we can do anything for you.
 
  • #12
Your are in my thoughts and prayers. It is great you can be there and don't forget to take care of yourself.
 
  • #13
I just thanked God for his miracle. That was definitely a God-thing that the "Expert" was in the hospital at the time!! Amen! What a blessing. Just prayed for peace for your family and a smooth recovery for mom. When you get a chance let us know how things are going.

Take care of yourself!
 
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Praise God!! Wow. I said a prayer for you all.
 
  • #15
WOW Becky - thought and prayers to you and the entire family! ...so glad she is alive!
 
  • #16
Prayers go out to you and your family! What a miracle! May God continue to bless your family!
 
  • #17
Becky -

God is SO good! Praying here ...
 
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Update!Hi Everyone!

Just an update on my mom......She is doing very well! Yesterday was a day of gratitude and thanks to God for His goodness! They were able to pull out the ventilator tube yesterday - 2 days before they thought they would. That's good because now she can talk - and she was getting frustrated not being able to talk, and hated having her hands in restraints.

The main concern now is still for Pnuemonia & also infection the Esophogus....please pray that the the lungs stay clear and healing continues!
Thanks so much for all of the prayers and well wishes - you guys are the best!
What an incredible blessing to have such a beautiful "virtual Cluster"!
AND Jennifer Knapp! I was thinking of you so much as I was sitting in the hospital! I understand now what you have been through too! We will have to be "prayer buddies" for each other!

ALSO - say a little prayer for me! I had a Dr's appt yesterday - have been feeling REALLY crappy for several months and they have been running some tests.......turns out (and I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around all this w/ everything else going on) I tested positive for Epstein-Barr Virus (same virus that causes Mononucleosis) and I have Lyme Disease! YIKES! I don't remember being bitten by a tick - but it could be possible - we do a lot of hiking and camping. I'm sorta glad for the diagnosis though - because I was beginning to think I was crazy, or a hypochondriac or something!

So - I need to get everything around for my show this evening - and then spend part of the day w/ my mom.....still need to find a sitter for Micah too....
Thanks everyone! I'll try get on tomorrow too!
 
  • #19
More Prayers coming your way for a continuous recovery. My mom had a stroke so I went through the whole process as well. God does send miracles and everyday I think Mom is mine! ((Hugs))
 
  • #20
Oh my goodness Becky!! There must be a nurse at your hospital that needs a witness! We will definitely be praying for you and your mother.

Isn't good to finallly know what's wrong?!
 
  • #21
Wow, Becky, you've sure been dealing with a TON!! I wish you all the best as you tackle this newest challenge. Now at least you know what's been going on with YOU. Be sure to take good care of yourself!!:)
 
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Update!Wow! My mom is doing so well! She is talking and laughing (although it hurts) - I think she is actually feeling better than she has in a long time. Yesterday afternoon they were able to move her out of ICU and into a regular room - about 4 days ahead of schedule! The surgeon came in to check on her yesterday afternoon - and he actually called her surgery and recovery a MIRACLE! (we already knew thats what it was!) He is amazed at how well she is doing! Now he is saying she should be able to leave the hospital in another week! When she leaves the hospital, she will have to have a visiting nurse come see her at home on a daily basis though, because she will need a feeding tube in her intestines for a couple more weeks.

The cool thing about that (Although it's in no way cool to have a feeding tube!) is that my show last night - which I came within a centimeter of cancelling because I was so exhausted and didn't think I could do - anyway, my show was with a Visiting Nurse from Holland Home Care - and several of her guests were also nurses from there - so almost certainly one of them will be my mom's home nurse! It was nice to meet them all before hand!

So today, I am hanging out at home w/ my little guy - who is really missing his mommy, doing laundry, closing 2 shows, and weeding the garden - then back to the hospital tonight for the evening!

Thanks for your continued prayers and support! I appreciate all of you so much!
 
  • #23
Hi Becky
Let me know if you need anything here in Holland. Glad to hear your mom is doing well.
JAE
 
  • #24
Wow Becky! Sorry I am so late in reading/replying. I am praying for your mom, for you and for your entire family!
 
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JAE said:
Hi Becky
Let me know if you need anything here in Holland. Glad to hear your mom is doing well.
JAE

THANKS! :)

I'm sorry I haven't followed up w/ you about NC - are you still looking for a room? Actually, I think my director sent me an email w/ some info for you - but I've been in such a fog........let me know if you need anything!
 
  • #26
Becky,
I will keep your Mom & family in my prayers. This all has to be so stressfull for all of you. Please take care of each other & yourselves.
 
  • #27
Hey Becky - We were chatting on the thread about Melissa If you would like me to find some herbal and vitamin suggestion for the Epstein Barr and Lyme disease I will look it up when I am at work tonight

Let me know!

Kathy
 
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Kathytnt said:
Hey Becky - We were chatting on the thread about Melissa If you would like me to find some herbal and vitamin suggestion for the Epstein Barr and Lyme disease I will look it up when I am at work tonight

Let me know!

Kathy


Thanks Kathy!

Actually, the Dr. I just went to is a Naturopath - and has me on 7 Homeopathic remedies right now! (but we are on the same page about how to get better!) I always trust natural remedies first! Plus - I have friends who have been to her who have had incredible results!
My dream is to someday work at our local Health Food Store! They opened a branch close to me while I was pregnant, so I'll wait now until DS is in school - I have 3 friends that work there now - and they all love it!
 

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