Kitchen Diva
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Hi Cheffers! I ran across a slight moral dilema and wanted to know if you think I did the right thing. I feel that I did- without a doubt but I was left thinking that I shouldn't be looking a gift horse in the mouth at the same time.
The temp agency I signed up with called me today. Her name is Tina. She asked how I was doing and if I'd found work yet. I told her no I had not- and it was mainly due to the fact that I always loved the assignments given to me by their agency in the past and I wanted to give them a couple of weeks to see if anything came in before I signed with additional staffing agencies.
Tina asked if I was interested in short term jobs, and I told her I would be and asked what she had in mind. She told me that they had an assignment but it had to go to someone who could look the part of a wealthy person and act the part as well. The assignment was mystery shopping 3 different very "high-brow and high-end" Senior Living Facilities.
This would involve me dressing to the nine's and making an appointment to meet with the staff at each facility and telling them something along the lines that I'm looking for a place for my mother to live...and essentially making up a huge story about my life, my mother's life, and her medical conditions, etc in order to get information on pricing, activities, floor plans, menu's etc for each facility. Each meeting would take between 30-60 minutes but I would be paid for a minimum of 4 hours per assignment so I would get a check for 12 hours....at the end of my conversation with Tina two things stood out to me.
#1- I would have to lie and make up lots of stories just to get information on these places, when I don't quite understand why the secret shopper agency just can't do that themselves- unless the employees know people will be coming in and pretending to inquire about the facility.
#2- if I took this assignment not only would I have to be untruthful but I'd have to be a snob, and I'm a reformed snob...kidding, actually the pay is less than what 1 week on unemployment would be, and with the way things are going with them I can just see it taking another 4 weeks to get my benefits reinstated after one 12 hour work week.
So I turned the assignment down. I could tell that Tina was really disappointed but in all honesty I think it's because I'm the only employee they have that has the clothing and personality and education to pull off that assignment-
I told her that I just couldn't justify taking an assignment where not only would I have to be dishonest, but that wouldn't even cover half of what my unemployment check would be and don't get me started on how much gas I'd be using for 3 separate trips to the three facilities. I also think she was a little bummed because they need to have this assignment completed by the 16th of June.
I told her if she could get me a 30 day short term assignment that would be better than a 12 hour short term assignment. If DH was working I would be able to take jobs like that (not dishonest ones, but short term ones) however I feel to an extent I have to be a little picky about where I go and what I do.
The other gal in the office- her name is Violet- she told me with my experience and skills that I have every right to be picky about which assignment I will or won't take. I told her I'd consider almost anything because I do want to work.
So, what would you have done? Would you have taken the assignment just to work and help your temp agency out- and take a sizable cut in pay from your unemployment benefit and hope that it would start up again the following week that you weren't working...or would you have done what I did?
I do have an interview with an HR staffing agency tomorrow and another interview with another general staffing agency on Monday- so I have been keeping busy looking for work and setting up interviews... I just didn't feel right about taking a job and having to lie about so many things...
The temp agency I signed up with called me today. Her name is Tina. She asked how I was doing and if I'd found work yet. I told her no I had not- and it was mainly due to the fact that I always loved the assignments given to me by their agency in the past and I wanted to give them a couple of weeks to see if anything came in before I signed with additional staffing agencies.
Tina asked if I was interested in short term jobs, and I told her I would be and asked what she had in mind. She told me that they had an assignment but it had to go to someone who could look the part of a wealthy person and act the part as well. The assignment was mystery shopping 3 different very "high-brow and high-end" Senior Living Facilities.
This would involve me dressing to the nine's and making an appointment to meet with the staff at each facility and telling them something along the lines that I'm looking for a place for my mother to live...and essentially making up a huge story about my life, my mother's life, and her medical conditions, etc in order to get information on pricing, activities, floor plans, menu's etc for each facility. Each meeting would take between 30-60 minutes but I would be paid for a minimum of 4 hours per assignment so I would get a check for 12 hours....at the end of my conversation with Tina two things stood out to me.
#1- I would have to lie and make up lots of stories just to get information on these places, when I don't quite understand why the secret shopper agency just can't do that themselves- unless the employees know people will be coming in and pretending to inquire about the facility.
#2- if I took this assignment not only would I have to be untruthful but I'd have to be a snob, and I'm a reformed snob...kidding, actually the pay is less than what 1 week on unemployment would be, and with the way things are going with them I can just see it taking another 4 weeks to get my benefits reinstated after one 12 hour work week.
So I turned the assignment down. I could tell that Tina was really disappointed but in all honesty I think it's because I'm the only employee they have that has the clothing and personality and education to pull off that assignment-
I told her that I just couldn't justify taking an assignment where not only would I have to be dishonest, but that wouldn't even cover half of what my unemployment check would be and don't get me started on how much gas I'd be using for 3 separate trips to the three facilities. I also think she was a little bummed because they need to have this assignment completed by the 16th of June.
I told her if she could get me a 30 day short term assignment that would be better than a 12 hour short term assignment. If DH was working I would be able to take jobs like that (not dishonest ones, but short term ones) however I feel to an extent I have to be a little picky about where I go and what I do.
The other gal in the office- her name is Violet- she told me with my experience and skills that I have every right to be picky about which assignment I will or won't take. I told her I'd consider almost anything because I do want to work.
So, what would you have done? Would you have taken the assignment just to work and help your temp agency out- and take a sizable cut in pay from your unemployment benefit and hope that it would start up again the following week that you weren't working...or would you have done what I did?
I do have an interview with an HR staffing agency tomorrow and another interview with another general staffing agency on Monday- so I have been keeping busy looking for work and setting up interviews... I just didn't feel right about taking a job and having to lie about so many things...